Former hedge fund manager and CNBC commentator Seth Tobias died after allegedly drowning in the pool at his Jupiter, Florida home. 

Tobias' wife has been accused of his murder, and now the New York Times is revealing more.  Evidently Seth Tobias led a secret gay life before he died.

The Times is reporting that Tobias was known to frequent a gay bar called Cupids in West Palm Beach.  That's where, according to the Times, he met a go-go dancer named Tiger who "is blond and covered with tattoos that look like stripes."

Their secret life was evidently filled with drugs and gay sex.

Now the big question is... did his wife found about his secret life and kill him or did he piss off the wrong gay guy or drug dealer?